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Charles R. “Buzz” Barry Jr., 87, of Palm Harbor, Florida, passed away peacefully at home on April 17, 2026, after a courageous battle with Pancreatic Adenocarcinoma. He is survived by his beloved wife of nearly 65 years, Patricia Jean (DiMarzio) Barry, whom he married on June 3, 1961.
Born on March 10, 1939, in Brockton, Massachusetts, Charles was the son of Charles Raymond Barry Sr. and Winifred (Campbell) Barry. He proudly volunteered to enlist in the United States Army in 1958, serving until 1960, including during the Korean War. He continued his service in the Army Reserves from 1960 to 1964. Following his military service, Charles built a long and successful career with United Parcel Service (UPS), where he served as a Northeast Regional Labor Relations Manager.
Charles was a devoted family man who found his greatest joy in spending time with those he loved. He had a lifelong passion for sports, especially following the Boston Red Sox, and enjoyed watching golf as much as playing it. An avid golfer, he proudly achieved three hole-in-ones over the years. He also loved traveling, dining out, and starting each day with a crossword puzzle.
A man of deep faith, Charles was a member of Our Lady of Lourdes Catholic Church and St. Patrick’s Parish, and carried a strong and enduring belief in God. He had a great appreciation for reading, particularly novels by James Patterson and Dan Brown, and enjoyed relaxing with television, including his favorite shows on Netflix and John Wayne movies. Known for his love of memorabilia and his gift for storytelling, Charles will be remembered for his warmth, generosity, humor, and the way he brought people together.
Above all, Charles will be remembered for sincerely loving his family and his country.
In addition to his wife Patricia, he is survived by his children: John J. Barry and his partner Susan J. Achorn; Colleen M. Carse and her husband James; Julie A. Cray and her husband Brian; and Timothy P. Barry and his wife Kimberly. He also leaves behind his cherished grandchildren: Elisabeth N. Carse, Maria C. Cray, and Jonathan B. Cray. Charles is further survived by his siblings, Winifred K. Pelton and her husband William, and Joseph Barry and his wife Sandra, along with many extended family members and dear friends.
His family takes comfort in the many memories they shared with him, whether it was watching a game, sharing a meal, or simply enjoying time together. His strength, love, and steady presence will remain with them always.
Family and friends are invited to attend calling hours on Sunday, April 26, from 3:00 to 5:00 PM at Carr Funeral Home, 24 Hill St, Whitinsville, MA 01588. A funeral Mass will be held on Monday, April 27, at 11:00 AM at St. Patrick’s Church, 1 Cross St, Whitinsville, MA 01588, followed by a luncheon at Whitinsville Golf Club, 179 Fletcher St, Whitinsville, MA 01588. A private burial will take place on Tuesday, April 28, at Massachusetts National Cemetery in Bourne.
The family thanks all who have offered their support and love during this time.
For those who wish, donations in Charles’ memory may be made to the American Cancer Society or Empath Suncoast Hospice.
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